The San Francisco Chronicle had an interesting article about a week ago, one which I’ve been mulling over since then, trying to decide how I felt about it. Entitled, “Turn on, tune in, drop out — today’s motto” it discusses how many of us are becoming absorbed in our own self-contained worlds of technical entertainment, insulating us from the needs of interacting with each other face-to-face.
While I tend to feel some of the article is overblown (the writer himself concedes that he is semi-guilty of “technophobic fretting”), I do believe there are some valid points in the article.
For example, when I was a kid, I went to dinner with my parents and actually spoke to them. Nowadays I see children with all manner of distractions, from video games to portable DVD players, sitting at the table with their parents … and not paying attention to them. There are quite a few children who would rather logon when they get home and play video games or chat instead of going out and playing baseball. Plenty of them still go out and play, however, but if I look at my street on a weekday after school, there are a lot less kids out there than I recall from my childhood … and it’s not because there are less in the neighborhood.
As an adult, technology helps me stay more connected, as I’m always in touch with my cell phone and (if I wanted) could even do so with email. In fact, many people think they are too connected, especially in terms of work. Of course, none of this is face-to-face.
Some of the shying away from personal contact may actually have to do with too much contact. The author addresses things like people staying home and not going to the movies. My wife and I recently discussed this … when we go to the movies we are assailed by people talking on their cell phones, rude behavior, crowded theatres, setting off fireworks (yes, this happened once) … since we have a huge TV at home, and since theatre screens have shrunk as the stand-alone theatre has given way to the cineplex, why would we bother to go out … unless we absolutely CANNOT wait for the movie to come to HBO or DVD.
I don’t think it’s so clear-cut. Technology, as I’ve said before, can be either good or bad for us … it’s up to us as users to make sure we don’t allow ourselves to fall into the trap of hikikomori and withdraw from the world. And, as with all things, it’s important that we make sure our children don’t fall into that trap, either, and that they, and we, remember that humans need human contact … and that there’s nothing better than heading for the park on a beautiful spring day with your dogs.

